all my life..with all my friends,i have somehow managed to always be the nigger in the middle. damn shoot me for bein the guy who listens!!
but honestly, too many times i have two friends who decide they don't want to talk to each other and i'm expected to pick?!! like honestly..that is so unfair. some people say i am a good listener and i'm thinkin of changiong that coz now i'm screwed.
you see when two of your mutual friends are not talkin, they really want to talk to each other but noone wants to give in first and for them the best way to do that is to find someone else to talk to. thats where my suffering starts; all of a sudden they realixe the one good listener they know is me and i am called for duty.
sad bit is, when one knows you are with the other he feels its a betrayal and now you have to make time for the both of them. this was so much easier when u could talk to them both at once!!
life is full of such selfish people who do not realise the magnitude of the repercussions of their actions...and do not care who will serve as the grass while the elephants fight. its too draining.
so as you wake up everyday, look at how your actions affect others..U DO NOT LIVE IN A VACCUM!
and then the two friends are going to patch things up but you...you are scarred for a while..the life of me
but honestly, too many times i have two friends who decide they don't want to talk to each other and i'm expected to pick?!! like honestly..that is so unfair. some people say i am a good listener and i'm thinkin of changiong that coz now i'm screwed.
you see when two of your mutual friends are not talkin, they really want to talk to each other but noone wants to give in first and for them the best way to do that is to find someone else to talk to. thats where my suffering starts; all of a sudden they realixe the one good listener they know is me and i am called for duty.
sad bit is, when one knows you are with the other he feels its a betrayal and now you have to make time for the both of them. this was so much easier when u could talk to them both at once!!
life is full of such selfish people who do not realise the magnitude of the repercussions of their actions...and do not care who will serve as the grass while the elephants fight. its too draining.
so as you wake up everyday, look at how your actions affect others..U DO NOT LIVE IN A VACCUM!
and then the two friends are going to patch things up but you...you are scarred for a while..the life of me
u cant not listen,~, their feuds are always humorous anyway-seriously-"who saw the new Star Wars movie first?","who was tht girl winkin at wen she passed?","who could grow a longer afro?",wtf!/who cares :D ? NOW, u cnt ignore it coz ul then be "picking sides", again u cant not talk to either one because when they relink(which they will!), they'r gona turn on u, n mk u the public enemy, :D ! good luck! :~:
ReplyDelete@mandy thats true
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